Sex needs to be educated in the right way because the modern way of thinking is to do it with someone you love, but then people start falling in love with as many people as they want. I believe that when you meet the right person the love for that one won’t even compare to the others you so called loved. Then you already gave your virginity away to someone you didn’t truly love. Sex is messy I see it mess with peoples minds and destroy relationships because it’s not used properly. The marriage rate of couples staying together who wait until marriage and use nfp is 98%. In my opinion the stats speak for themselves. We need to learn how to abstain and be fruitful in our actions and stay strong and not let society make decisions for us.
“Marriage, in the eyes of God, is a beautiful thing that is supposed to bring two souls, two virgins, together and make one.” -anonymous
Society needs to see the point of marriage, everyone craves love it’s in our nature but we need to be educated on how to use it in the right way because today most people are looking to be loved but the question is are they loving back. We must love one another and sacrifice and care for eachother because thats what love is. In order to form a relationship with someone we must learn to love them and pray to God that you keep him involved with every relationship you make especially marriage because it’s a vow made between a man, a woman and God. There relationship was formed to love one another and they must honor the vow they made by sacrificing for the.
A marriage has a lot of needs to make it healthy but since in my past blogs I kinda sorta put sex down now I want to raise it up. Sex is beautiful, it’s a gift from God. Sex allows husband and wife to express their love for one another and procreate. The church acknowledge sex as a part of marriage and they support the sex relationship in the marriage, thats why they created NFP. It stands for Natural Family Planning it’s a way that couples can learn how to avoid or achieve pregnancy and it allows you to have a mature relationship and be open with your spouse and include God in every decision you make in your marriage.
The divorce rate in this country is extremely high and everyone who has parents who are divorced are most likely to get one themselves because they don’t see what it’s like to have a proper family and what is a healthy technique to keep a marriage strong. Statistic say that 40%-50% of Americans are divorced and kids are suffering everyday from their parents separating. This country is not teaching the youth about proper relationships society has a bad habit of being obsessed with themselves and they are not learning that marriage is all about sacrificing for the other. So many divorces are caused by couples just giving up because they don’t want to make the sacrifice anymore and they hurt those around them. We need to teach the youth how to have a healthy strong relationship and we need examples to look up to on what a healthy marriage look like.
I used to be one of those stubborn people/ still am who hated the chastity talks because I would hear them from people who were either virgins or they waited till marriage and I got so annoyed because I thought the were just wanting everyone to know that they stayed chaste and did the right thing, it drove me crazy, I felt that I didn’t take the talk seriously and I thought they were losers. Listening to a talk like that does not make me want to be like them. I always wanted to hear from someone who had experience and could really tell me the truth and honestly scare me by just being honest. If you like me then please watch the video that I posted a few blogs ago and watch Crystalina Evert talk about her past and how hard it was for her and how she regrets all of it. When I first read her book when I was in middle school I really listened to what she had to say and I understood why it’s important to be chaste.