I used to be one of those stubborn people/ still am who hated the chastity talks because I would hear them from people who were either virgins or they waited till marriage and I got so annoyed because I thought the were just wanting everyone to know that they stayed chaste and did the right thing, it drove me crazy, I felt that I didn’t take the talk seriously and I thought they were losers. Listening to a talk like that does not make me want to be like them. I always wanted to hear from someone who had experience and could really tell me the truth and honestly scare me by just being honest. If you like me then please watch the video that I posted a few blogs ago and watch Crystalina Evert talk about her past and how hard it was for her and how she regrets all of it. When I first read her book when I was in middle school I really listened to what she had to say and I understood why it’s important to be chaste.
“The right relationship won’t distract you from God. It will bring you closer to Him.”
― Jason Evert
This quote is exactly what God intended on relationships being. Relationships are supposed to be about the guy and the girl bringing out the best in the other and God should be the biggest focus. Every action you make is what will help you or hold you back from getting to heaven. Life is all about how we can get to heaven, everyone has their own way of getting their but we are all supposed to make it. Being married is so you can help each other on the journey, it’s all about having a family and raising kids to make good decisions so they can get to heaven as well.
I know that this looks stupid, honestly I just went to look for a quote for the blog but I literally watched the whole video very intrigued by it and after I was getting choked up. He has a lot of great points that I think everyone should pay attention to you. I don’t care if your a virgin and you think you’ll be until marriage because everyone struggles don’t lie. Admit it and try to solve the problem by getting advise and following it.